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October 29, 2007 at 11:19 am#69808

msbettyboopinva

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I AM IN SUCH NEED OF PRAYERS AND HELP FOR ME AND MY CHILDREN I AM SCARED HAVE NOWHERE TO TURN AND HAVE NEVER BEEN

SO DEPRESSED IN MY LIFE AND FEEL AS A FAILURE TO MY CHILDREN. THINGS HERE ARE SO BAD. WE HAVE LOST OUR HOME WE WERE

RENTING AND NOW ARE IN A ONE ROOM MOTEL AND WE HAVE BEEN HAVING TO RENT IT DAY BY DAY BECAUSE I CANNOT FIND ANY

HELP FOR ME AND THE KIDS. PLEASE WE NEED EMERGENCY HELP I AM BEGGING ANYONE PLEASE HELP. WE ARE IN NEED OF HELP

KEEPING A ROOF OVER OUR HEADS FOOD THAT CAN BE MICROWAVED BUT NOT REFRIGERATED…EXAMPLE MICROVE HAMBURGER HELPER

AND CANS OF CHEF BOY R DEE DRINKS ECT/ WE ARE IN GREAQT NEED OF CLOTHING FOR ALL OF US AS WELL AND JUST DAILY

LIVING ITEMS LIKE SOAP SHAMPOO TOOTHPASTE SCHOOL SUPPLIES AND CHANGE TO WASH CLOTHES. I AM USING THE HOTELS

COMPUTER AND IT HAS INTERNET . I HAVE TO GO INTO THE LOBBY TO USE IT BUT AT LEAST I NOW HAVE A WAY TO POST AND TRY

TO FIND HELP. IF U CAN OR KNOW ANYONE WHO CAN HELP US PLEASE PLEASE HAVE THEM CONTACT ME. GOD BLESS ALL OF THOSE

WHO ARE KEEPING US IN YOUR PRAYERS. I AM FALLING TO PIECES SO BAD IN FACT THAT I HAD A COMPLETE BREAKDOWN LAST WEEK

AND WAS HOSPITILIZED FOR IT,

I understand most people in their right minds will never ever believe what me and my kids are going through. I dont

have anywhere to go or anyone to turn to anymore and honestly I have lost the one
thing i had left which is my hope. I left an abusive mentally and physicaly husband a few years ago and from that

nightmare I entered a new one. I met someone who I thought finally cared for me for me. Well i was so wrong and now

I am worse off than I was. I have lost everything my home my car ….my life. right now since July I have had to

move my children from motel to motel because i tried to do the right thing my two girls 10 and 12 i entrusted an 18

yr old girl who i to take to a movie at the theater where she worked. My daughters came to me a few weeks later and

told me they saw her in the bathroom sniffing something off the back of the toilet.obviously drugs. I called Vice

and reported her along with her high school and asked to remainannonmous. Well guess she figured it out and since

july her boyfriend and his friends have harrassed me to no end. To make it worse the guy i thought was the one who

would be there for me well turns out his sister is involved with these people and lives cross the st from where i

lived. His sister is a felon and a proffessional hooker ect. It got so bad they would call my house and if the kids

answered the phone they would say while youre sleeping we are gonna burn your house down while you sleep..they

would drive by take pics of my kids. text whaqt they would sexually do to me and my kids tell me what they were

wearing and doing and how they would rape kill us ect. it’s so bad that they have followed me wherever we go. I

have called everyone from the police to fbi and noone will help us. I have now lost my apartment i was renting

because i am 3 mths behind. I dont understand why the police will not give me a protection order or put me and the

kids somewhere safe. Now the person i finally got a warrant on his mom called found out where i was and said you

are proscuting my son so I want to know where your kids sleep at night. so they are trying to get an intimindation

of a witness or something like that against his mother. But I put another warrant on him and i called today and

they still after 2 weeks have not put a charge on his mother. I am afraid to put another warrant out on the other

guy threatning me because i know he deals heroin and i know his ex roomate is in jail now for murder. so where do i

turn. I have called everyone there is noone that will help me and my kids. his sister stole my pain medication and

purse so not only do I now have no id but she called my dr told him my pills were short and i was a druggie so he

said until i get a conviction i have been taken off all my medicine where i cant function without due too being

beat in my head for ten years being in two car wrecks and being run over by a car. i put out a warrant on her and

they would not let me call a witness just found her not guilty. her boyfriend a 6 ft 4 itallion beat the crap out

of my 15 yr old i went to get a warrant becuase they didnt arrest him. well while downtown i got arressted she told

them i had been sending her texes calling her and threatening to kill her and her kids i was not allowed to call a

single witness judge put me under advisement.This girl burned a girls car down in downtown had her on wire and guy

she did it with testified against her she forged a narcotic prescription and got a dui while on probation ect and

has not served one day in jail. went to court for her bf kicking my sons butt while she kicked him in face and they

got not guilty now trying to say my son hit him with a hammer . it is crazy. this girl has no morals at all.for

example on way to her dads funeral she was calling CPS on some girl that she didnt like. shes lost one kid already

and me and her brother and mother have raised her three others. she let a girl live with her a mth later kicked her

out sold and gave away all of those girls things and then same thing called the girls doctor after stealing her

meds and did same thing. she does this to everyone and noone will stop her. now as of last night i have no car

because I was threatened by her and her friend she escorts with and get this its the same girl that she burned her

car down. Makes no sense to me. but i was using her brothers car and well last night my car had been gone through

and unlocked which i religiously lock the car due to everything. put gas in it got on the highways 15 min later it

blew up. i know they did something to the car but he came and took it and would not let me have police look at it.

its his car and his sister so what can i do…nothing. In court for the assault he got them off saying they were

fighting over a sled and fell on top of each other. on top ofthat his sister and her bf now are saying my son broke

into his truck stole money and his valiums which the week before she had telling them jon thought he lostthem. nOW

she has called my kids dad and told him a bunch of lies and mr daddy who has not seen or called his daughters in

over two years now is threatening me. i dont have anywhere to go because I have noone to help All the friends i

once had are gone. When i got hurt and sick became disabled and couldnt work anymore and everything else going on i

found out the friends i thought were friends werent they have all dissapeared. I am really really depressed scared

and totally totally lost right now. i tried to get a warrent on his sister and I ve been threatened by people i

trusted and I am so stressed and sick and totally falling apart so badly that i feel like i am losing my mind. i

honestly dont know where to turn where to go. i know most people would never believe what is happening to meand I

will not be mad if you dont because if it wasnt happening to me i WOULD NEVER BELIEVE IT MYSELF. I just am in a

very bad place andhave no idea where to go where to get help. I have called every where and there is no help. You

would think by dointhe right thing the police would help you but everything i once
believed and thought is all fiction.

THINGS HERE ARE SO BAD. WE HAVE LOST OUR HOME WE WERE RENTING AND NOW ARE IN A ONE ROOM MOTEL AND WE HAVE BEEN

HAVING TO RENT IT DAY BY DAY BECAUSE I CANNOT FIND ANY HELP FOR ME AND THE KIDS. PLEASE WE NEED EMERGENCY HELP I AM

BEGGING ANYONE PLEASE HELP. WE ARE IN NEED OF HELP KEEPING A ROOF OVER OUR H
EADS FOOD THAT CAN BE MICROWAVED BUT

NOT REFRIGERATED…EXAMPLE MICROVE HAMBURGER HELPER AND CANS OF CHEF BOY R DEE DRINKS ECT/ WE ARE IN GREAQT NEED

OF CLOTHING FOR ALL OF US AS WELL AND JUST DAILY LIVING ITEMS LIKE SOAP SHAMPOO TOOTHPASTE SCHOOL SUPPLIES AND

CHANGE TO WASH CLOTHES. I AM USING THE HOTELS COMPUTER AND IT HAS INTERNET . I HAVE TO GO INTO THE LOBBY TO USE IT

BUT AT LEAST I NOW HAVE A WAY TO POST AND TRY TO FIND HELP. IF U CAN OR KNOW ANYONE WHO CAN HELP US PLEASE PLEASE

HAVE THEM CONTACT ME. GOD BLESS ALL OF THOSE WHO ARE KEEPING US IN YOUR PRAYERS.
WE ARE IN ALOT OF TROUBLE MY BABY BOOKS AND PICTURES AND THINGS I CANNOT REPLACE OF MY CHILDRENS ARE IN A STORAGE

UNIT I HAVE NOWAY TO GET IT OUT BECAUSE THEY ADDED ANOTHER MONTH ON. NEXT WEEK I AM GOING TO LOSE THINGS THAT ARE

TOO IMPORTANT AND I CANNOT REPLACE. ALL THE THINGS IN MY HOME I HAVE LEF TAS WELL DUE TO THE ELECTRIC BEING CUT OFF

AND I ONLY HAVE A WEEK TO GET ME AND MY KIDS THINGS OUT OF THE HOUSE BECAUSE I HAVE BEEN EVICTED. I HAVE NOWHERE TO

PUT MY FURNTURE OR ALL MY THINGS AND I AM SCARED AND DESPERATE AND FEEL LIKE A COMPLETE FAILURE AS A MOTHER RIGHT

NOW.I CANNOT EVEN GET HELP WITH THINGS AND EVEN CHRISTAMS FOR MY KIDS HELP BECAUSE my purse was stolen and i was

born in another state and have noone yet able to help me get it. since SEPT 11 U NOW HAVE TO NOT ONLY PAY FOR IT

AND IT TAKES UP TO 12 WEEKS BUT U HAVE TO SHOW ID EVEN TO SIGN THE NOTORY TO ORDER IT AND I LIVE IN VA BUT WAS BORN

IN CALIFORNIA SO I AM REALLY SCREWED RIGHT NOW.

MY EMAIL IS
[email protected]

October 29, 2007 at 4:09 pm#69828

Laurel

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Betty in VA,
I couldn't even read your entire post. It is that distressing. You first and formost need to put you faith and energy into YHWH God.

You need to pray that He will watch over you and your children and protect you by His mercy and grace. It is time you take you two girls by the hand and ask that they take that step with you in sincere prayer. You may think this is “crazy” advice, but it is a real thing that our Father in heaven protects us and loves us.

Your light from this dark place will shine on you and yours when you all choose to believe and follow Y'shua Messiah (our Savior Jesus). This is a promise and it is true.

Secondly, you need to remove yourself and your children from this toxic environment you once trusted as friends. These kind of friends will destroy you.

Get a phone book. Call the Salvation Army, the Red Cross, any church. Someone near will be there for you if you choose to believe in His help.

There is nothing on this planet that He can not overcome. There is no one too depressed or wrong, form Him to rescue!! My prayers are with you and especially your children, for they are with you in whatever you do. Do not be afraid.

Love in the Messiah Y'shua,
Laurel

October 29, 2007 at 4:38 pm#69832

Not3in1

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Betty,

I will speak frank with you as it seems that time is of the essence in your situation. The next motel you stay at may not even have Internet access, indeed, I don't know many “motels” that do (especially ones that you can rent day-by-day).

I've worked on the street. My sister OD'd from herion on the street. I've rescued (with the help of God) many like you from motels and even from the grip of pimps. I venture to say you did not get into this situation by living an honest life – no one does.

I beg you to do right by your girls! They are of the age that abuse is rampant. Pimps love to get their hand on pre-teen girls and they make TONS of money on them. I'm not saying you would let this happen, it just happens when you are in the situation that you are in. You can prevent this lifestyle from happening to your girls. You can change things for THEM. You may not be able to change things for you, but you certainly can for your girls. They need to be in a stable invironment with clothes, food, schooling and support. If you cannot give this to them (and it sounds like for right now, at least, you cannot), I encourage you to put them in foster care. Believe me, they will thank you for it years down the road. If you think foster care is bad……re-read your post! The life they are living with you is hell.

For immediate help, go to a women's shelter/mission. They have counselor's who can help you map out a better life. Clearly you need to stop looking for hand-out's on the Internet and seek real, physical help with an organization.

If you truly are seeking the Lord's help, be prepared for him to ask you if you want to be well. Then he will tell you, “Get up! Take your mat and go home.” If you want to be well, you have to ACT. I wonder if you truly want this? From the sounds of your post, you are merely looking for a hand-out. God help you and your dear children.

October 29, 2007 at 4:41 pm#69833

Not3in1

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Betty,
I also find it curious that you are desperate for time in using the Internet, and desperate to find help, and yet you have time to choose an Avatar?

If my children were hungry and we were in an unsafe place, the last thing I would be doing is shopping for Avatar's. Jugemental? Maybe a little……..but truth? You betcha girl. DO RIGHT BY YOUR GIRLS. Or I fear for your afterlife!

October 29, 2007 at 5:03 pm#69840

Laurel

Participant

I agree “Take up you bed and walk.”

A shelter will provide you with the immediate and temporary help for your physical needs. Our Messiah will send you the Spiritual help you soul is craving.

Do it for your girls, they need you right now and for the rest of their earthly lives.

October 29, 2007 at 7:47 pm#69850

thehappyman

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Hi Betty:
Go to the Womens Shelter and they will help you , and by the way , they are funded by churches and businesses. In the state of Virginia their is so many helpmates for you and your children. As a man found out the hard way , his girlfriend had a child with him and she kept the child away from him for a long time and she was the drug addittic , so you have so much going for you in that state. This man didn't marry the woman ,now he has to fight just to see his own daughter.
Go to a spirit filled bible based church and seek the rewards of your good stewardship for your children. Laurel said it right , Your Father shall send you the spiritual help your soul is craving……….

October 30, 2007 at 2:57 am#69905

kenrch

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Quote (Not3in1 @ Oct. 30 2007,04:41)

Betty,
I also find it curious that you are desperate for time in using the Internet, and desperate to find help, and yet you have time to choose an Avatar?

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I also find it curious that you are desperate for time in using the Internet, and desperate to find help, and yet you have time to choose an Avatar?

October 30, 2007 at 2:51 pm#69945

msbettyboopinva

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I AM TRULY DISGUSTED WITH THOSE WHO JUDGE ME. I DIDNT BUY ANY AVATAR MY DAUGHTER PICKED IT OUT IT WAS FREE ON THIS SITE. DONT YOU THINK I HAVE CALLED SALVATION ARMY RED CROSS CHURCHES AND THE POLICE. OF COURSE I HAVE FOR MONTHS I HAVE BEEN TRYING WHICH IS WHY NOW I AM HERE IN THIS PLACE AND STATE OF MIND. I CANT FIND ANY HELP OR ANY FAITH BECAUSE THOSE WANT TO JUDGE ME INSTEAD OF EVEN LISTENING. i DID NOT PUT MYSELF HERE BECAUSE OF DRUGS OR PROSTITTUTION AS YOU IMPLIED AND THAT ANGERS AND UPSETS ME. I TRIED TO DO THE RIGHT THING I TURNED SOMEONE IN FOR DOING DRUGS AROUND MY CHILDREN TO NARCOTICS THIS HAS BEEN PAYBACK FOR THAT AND FOR MY PURSE THAT WAS STOLEN FROM MY CAR. MAYBE U DIDNT READ IT ALL OR MAYBE LIKE EVERYONE ELSE YOU ARE TOO JUDGEMENTAL TO THINK DANG THIS GIRL HAS BEEN PUT THROUGH THE RINGER AND NEEDS PRAYERS AND HELP. I HAD A COMPLETE BREAKDOWN THE OTHER DAY AND WAS HOSPITILIZED FOR IT SO U HAVE NO IDEA WHAT ME AND MY KIDS ARE GOING THROUGH AND IT IS HELL. i WAS HOPING TO FIND SOMEONE THAT GAVE A HOOT, THOUGHTMAYBE HERE I WOULD.THE POLICE HERE ARE DOING NOTHING AND I HAVE LOST EVERYTHING BECAUSE OF THESE SICK PEOPLE. DONT WORRY I KNOW NOW IT WAS A MISTAKE TO HOPE SOME FELLOW CHRISTIANS WOULD UNDERSTAND. LOOK IN THE MIRROR THAN CAST YOUR STONES.:angry: :angry:

October 30, 2007 at 3:40 pm#69948

kenrch

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Quote (msbettyboopinva @ Oct. 31 2007,02:51)

Betty,

You were admitted into a hospital for a nervous breakdown. I assume you spoke to an psychiatrist and he didn't put you in touch with a social worker?

Where are you at? I need to know so I never go there!

Do you think we can trust anyone who says they are Christian?

How did you get in this mess? You won't get help even from God unless you repent. But you have shown NO remorse for whatever you have done. You can't be completely innocent in this, are you?

You need to repent and cry out to God!

I will pray that you do just that and HIS will be done. Money would just be a band aid to help you for awhile. This can be accomplished without money by going to a shelter or social worker UNTIL you find work. You can wait on tables can't you. Go to a restaurant and ask if you can wash dishes. Explain your situation. Their are God fearing people where ever you are, LOOK for them.

This is work for a LOCAL church not the Internet.

I will pray that God help you. He won't help you while you sit on the Internet complaining.

October 31, 2007 at 4:39 pm#70056

msbettyboopinva

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repent…what for trusting the wrong people? For believing the good in people. I have prayed . repented for any mistakes i have ever made and asked God to see us through this . I am not even going to respond to the other terrible things you have said. you are the one who has issues and need to repent for being so coldharded and mean, this is exactly why i dont even try anymore. dont post to me again I quit trying to explain to people who are so narrowminded and uncaring

October 31, 2007 at 4:41 pm#70057

msbettyboopinva

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LET GOD JUDGE U FOR WHAT U HAVE SAID TO ME. I CAME HERE LOOKING FOR HELP AND PRAYERS NOT TO BE HURT AND TREATED LIKR TRASH

October 31, 2007 at 6:31 pm#70059

3in1

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Quote (msbettyboopinva @ Oct. 31 2007,02:51)

Betty

I understand being depressed Betty been there myself with 3 children, I have never been homeless while they were growing up but then I worked 2 jobs to support us while my ex husband was cheating, but I do have one question for you, if you are homeless and have no money how is it that you are staying in hotel and motels, I know that even in virginia they do cost something why not take that money and buy food for you and your children or maybe trying to move to another place to start a new life for all of you. I will be praying for you and especially for you children. There are many places that you can turn to for help, food stamps, welfare, and I know that there are programs that can help you with housing try going to the welfare dept and explaining your situation, seems to me that we are trying to help but its not the help that you are looking for. In order for you to find help you need to try and take the advise that has already been given to you

May God bless you and watch over you and your children

3in1

October 31, 2007 at 6:58 pm#70061

charity

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Quote (3in1 @ Nov. 01 2007,06:31)

Quote (msbettyboopinva @ Oct. 31 2007,02:51)

Betty

May God bless you and watch over you and your children

3in1

I wanted to ask the same question… but can only add… how much is it at the sherton..or hilton…but I guess …sorry anyway…grace to all.

October 31, 2007 at 7:10 pm#70062

Worshipping Jesus

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