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ARG, mad hot chik after me, wanting kinky sex!!! help me!!! im mad tempted >.< ARRRRRRRGGGGGGG DONT let me be a fallen brother. I want it so bad, im still a vergin AAAARGGGGG. But then i think, whats the point, no point only stupid flesh. Dam my youth.
I'll be praying for you.
The first thing you should do is pray, right now. Do it.
Next, work on your thoughts. Don't say “hot” to describe her, don't acknowledge her looks. Look at who she really is. Take a look at what Jesus/Yashua/Yahushua said:
Matthew 5:28
“But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.”2 Corinthians 10:5
“Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ;”Where I live we get some strange crickets. Please click the link and read the page as it is helpful to what I'm about to write.
As the page describes, these crickets love the dark. If you open the door, the cricket will jump away in the darkness quickly. They literally run (jump) from it. Also, they love moisture.
So what does this have to do with your problem? Well, the crickets are your bad thoughts, the moisture is the conformity, influence, and sin of the world, and darkness is the lies, and the light is truth.
The darkness hides the moisture, and the crickets love that. The darkness hides the moisture and crickets from you. It is there to blind you. So get rid of all the lies and deception in your mind. How do you do that? With truth! Open the door and turn on the light!
Notice what the article said about controlling the crickets. You get rid of the moisture. Get rid of the influence, comformity, and sin of the world. I'm not telling you in go live in a hole. I'm saying that you should avoid evil and not let it run you:
1 John 2:15-17
“Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world–the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life–is not of the Father but is of the world. And the world is passing away, and the lust of it; but he who does the will of God abides forever.”Now that the crickets are exposed, some might still be there, what do you do? Kill them! Destroy every last one of them, show no mercy.
Don't forget to know the difference between lust and love.* There is a big difference. Her offering is not the same kind of offering a loving wife would give. Treat her offer of sex like a swarm of killer bees chasing you. What do you do? Run!
1 Corinthians 6:15-20
” Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? shall I then take the members of Christ, and make them the members of an harlot? God forbid.
16 What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh.
17 But he that is joined unto the Lord is one spirit.
18 Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
19 What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?
20 For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's.”And if you do fall, remember these verses:
Hebrews 4:16
“Let us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need.”Hebrews 7:26
“Such a high priest meets our need, one who is holy, blameless, pure, set apart from sinners, exalted above the heavens.”Remember that because our high priest, we can come boldy unto the throne of grace in time of need. If you fall, come right back and keep on truckin' for Jesus
However, instead of dwelling on falling, you should rather dwell on the reward for enduring temptation:
James 1:12
“Blessed is the man who endures temptation; for when he has been approved, he will receive the crown of life which the Lord has promised to those who love Him.”You will truly be blessed abundantly. Imagine, a crown of life! That's much better than the title of “pimp”, “lover”, “cool”, or even “normal.”
Here is a course on temptation*: http://porn-free.org/temptation.htm I'm sure it'll be helpful for you.
Bless you, take care, and be diligent. Remember, these days are evil, and, most importantly, God loves you.
* NOTE: I am not advertising porn-free.org. It's just that I really enjoy that site and use it as a resource often.
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